Tuesday, February 9, 2016

#37~1982~First Rhythmic competition, FLA

How we enjoyed our life. With all the difficulties, surprises and shortages. I felt like the luckiest girl alive. My girls were growing, number of our students quadrupled, we were making lots of friends. But I missed my Rhythmic team. And the only way to start new Rhythmic gymnastics Team was exposure. So we picked 8  girls and offered them a trip to Tulsa, OK to watch  Rhythmic Gymnastics Nationals.
First Rhythmic Gymnastics Team sat United Gymnastics Academy.

Our trip was fun, exciting, with many stops and long conversations. Girls were so excited to start training and competing.


Another exciting thing happened: we sold our house in Detroit and my parents moved to Jacksonville. They lived with us first and then we rented an apartment for them next door. It was such a huge help for us. And Mom and dad were so happy to reunite with us again. My brother, Eduard moved to Las Vegas and enrolled to the Army. So proud of him!

My brother Eduard

While I was excited training my new Rhythmic team, Felix was very successful with Artistic Girls team, taking them on the local and State competitions
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Look at all the medals!!!

Saturday, February 14, 2015

#36~1981~Orange Park, FLA

Our daily life was exciting, busy, full of surprises: good, bad, scary and entertaining... We were on our own, we were making decisions, we were learning how to deal with different issues concerning business, children, parents, advertising, finances... But most of all we wanted to build a safe, happy place where kids could learn an art of gymnastics, bur also teach them life skills that they could carry on for the rest of their lives.
At that time we met a lot of people that became our good friends. One of them was a very nice gentleman - Claude Bass. He owned a local photography studio and was well known in the community. He would come and watch how we worked with the kids for hours, took photos and helped us more that he would ever know with simple business advice or just praising us for our work ethics or just giving encouraging smile.. Another family was Smith Family. Mary Smith had 3 girls and just "adopted" our family. We would spend a lot of time in her home...She also invited us to come visit her parents at the Amelia Island home where we spent wonderful weekends enjoying true southern hospitality, picturesque lake, huge pool, horse range.
I think around that time I started dreaming about having our own home, where Masha and Liz could have their own rooms, big yard to play, big kitchen for me to cook and entertain. I was definitely becoming an American!!!
On most of the Sundays we went to the beach to relax, play and have fun. We always brought a bus full of kids with us.
Our first building: Industrial Loop. Felix and my dad made the sign by themselves!

Mary Smith and Elizabeth Davidovich at the Amelia Island

Anastasia Beach with Marina Davidovich, Cindy Gossar, Masha, John Plunket, Katy Wolf.

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

#35 ~ JANUARY 1981~United Gymnastics Academy, Orange Park, FL

Driving from Detroit to Orange Park in fully packed station wagon, with 2 little girls in the back of the car playing, sleeping singing... we were thinking what's ahead, what to do first, what NOT to do....We were also thinking how to call our new business. We knew even then that name is very important. We saw the truck driving by with the sign "United" on it and I don't remember who said it out loud:"How about United Gymnastics Academy?" It makes sense: we wanted to teach all  3 disciplines to our future students: Artistic Gymnastics, Rhythmic Gymnastics and Acro-Sports. We will UNITE 3 sports!!! We had no idea that UGA stands for a very well known college in GA. But there were a lot of things we DID NOT know. As a matter of fact our upbringing, education and experience in Ukraine was all about anti-business and  anti-profit. Businessmen were made known as evil, mean people who were taking advantage of workers, and "sipping" their blood. And here we are, becoming business people!!!
On the previous visit to Orange Park Felix rented the apartment in "El Matador" apartment complex, next door to the Dog Track. Two bedroom apartment was clean, bright and empty and to say the least a little depressing.
But we had blue phone that we kept from our apartment in Detroit, we had small  table and 4 tiny chairs for the kids, some blankets and pillows, basic kitchen utensils. What else do we need? We had each other, our dreams and lots of  hope!
After paying Bob Salstone monthly rent, putting up all the deposits for the utilities, buying some necessities for the kids, we  practically had nothing left on our  account.
November 1, 1980 we opened the door to our Gym. Our first students: Cindy Gossar, John Plunket and another boy whose name I don't remember came in. Apparently, Bob told all his students that he closes business and most of them, actually all of them went to another Gymnastics school, not too far from our Gym. But this did not slow us down. We conducted classes with enthusiasm, love and professionalism. Word got out. Next week we had enough kids to split students on 2 groups, and then we had more and more kids coming.
Felix bought an old copy machine. We made flyers, pasting pictures from the magazines and typing on the old typewriter. One Sunday afternoon drove to Orange Park Mall and  put flyers on the cars We just wanted to let everyone know that we are here, that we are good...
Well, the manager of Orange Park mall did not share our enthusiasm. We got a very threatening phone call from his office and that was our lesson #1.
Kids were very happy. Mashoonya went to Orange Park Elementary school and Elizabeth was in the Day Care, not too far from the Gym. After school they ate, took naps and played in the Gym.
By December we had 30 students! Christmas Party was a success. We had Santa, exchanged gifts, danced, sang Christmas songs and I did a little demo of Rhythmic Gymnastics. And we had a local paper "The Florida Times Union" coming to do a story about us.
Marina Davidovich performing for the students during the Christmas party. Orange Park, FL

Newspaper article about our Gym. One of many...





Tuesday, February 11, 2014

#34~October 1980~Hello, Jacksonville!

I forgot to mention a very important event that happened in December 1979. Around Christmas time we were invited to spend Holidays in West Palm Beach, Florida. Ida's friend had a condominium there. She helped us to rent a room in a private home and Felix, Ida, Masha and I got in our little yellow "Dutch Colt" and were on our way to sunny Florida.
Elizabeth stayed home with my parents. She was too little to make this trip.
We were driving, singing Christmas carols, eating snacks and finally arrived to Jacksonville, Florida. We decided to stop and visit my friend from College, Alla. They immigrated to the States just like we did, about 2 years after we left Ukraine. It was so exciting to see her, meet her husband, Mark and their baby Stacy. They lived in a 2 bedroom apartment and we stayed up all night talking about our college years, exchanging stories about people we knew, about people we met in America and talked/dreamed about our life in the US. Next day it was raining and our plans to go to the beach had to be cancelled. Out of curiosity I opened a phone book and looked up Gymnastics Schools in the area. I found one and Alla said that she knows the owner, Bob Salstone. We decided to go see the school, just for fun. It was located in Orange Park, about 30 minutes from their home. We were impressed by the long ride over Buckman Bridge. I loved the fact that we could walk in shorts and sandals in December!!!, it was sunny and warm, and everyone seemed much nicer. When we arrived to CC Gymnastics (stands for Clay County Gymnastics), the owner, a very young man - Bob Salstone, greeted us with the smile and showed us around. It was a free standing cute building with everything you need to teach gymnastics to the kids. We walked around, talked and he lightheartedly asked us if we would be interested in buying it. We all laughed and joked about it.
After short, but fun visit, we were on our way to Palm Beach.
The reason that this incident is important: after few months we did receive a phone call from Bob and he asked us very seriously this time if we would be interested to move to Orange Park and buy his Gym. He was moving to Chicago. We looked at each other, and after a short discussion decided to give it a try. Felix got on the plane and went to visit him to discuss all the details. Honestly, I did not think it would work. I just could not see myself as a business owner... But Felix had other ideas and plans.
It was very difficult to let Steve, our friends and especially my students know about our plans. Everyone was very sad to see us go. Some were happy for us, for the opportunity we had. Some were saying that we will not last a month and will be begging to come back. Some just did not talk at all.
We did not know what was ahead of us. Again we jumped with our eyes closed and hoped for the best. But we were together. My parents stayed behind until the house would be sold.
At the end of September 1980 we packed our station wagon with most necessary things and were on our way to sunny Jacksonville, Florida! New chapter of our lives was about to start!
Marina Davidovich with Elizabeth and Masha in Orange Park, Fl

Sunday, January 5, 2014

#33 ~ 1980 ~ DETROIT, MI

Our life was beginning to have rhythm, schedule, healthy beat and stability. Every day we went to work, on the weekends we played with kids and visited friends. Family Roost was one of the families that helped us. They had beautiful house, big and well behaved dog and always lots of treats for the girls. Everything in the house was with roosters. And I still have the sugar bowl and creamer that they gave us so many years ago. People's kindness and  generosity amazed me. Sometimes I would come to work and there would be a basket with toys or clothes for the kids. I loved working, teaching, learning and growing... The only sad thing was that my parents still had hard time obtaining Visas to join us. At that point they were in Italy, waiting permission to enter the USA. So, the hard part of leaving Soviet Union was done. One of the requirements for them get this permission was: we had to take on the responsibility to provide their housing. So, at the beginning of the year we started looking for the house big enough that we could all live together. It was still hard for me to imagine to be an owner of the house. It was still very fresh in my memory how we lived in Kiev in one room, sharing the kitchen and bathroom with Ida's ex-husband...
Anyway, our weekends were busy driving around with the real estate agent and looking at the houses. Finally we found a house in Berkley, the one we could afford. After putting 10% down, we were left with no money at all. But we were happy to move into the 4 bedroom, 2 story house that needed a lot of work.

Celebrating Elizabeth's 4th birthday in the house in Berkley, MI
Mashoonya and Elizabeth playing in the yard.
I loved coming to the Gym. I was training girls, sharing with them all the knowledge and experience that I had. Some parents were asking me if I would consider competing again...But I was happy with coaching, doing a lot of choreography and getting my team ready for the competitions and shows. Progress was evident almost immediately. I felt so much support, love and encouragement from my boss, Steve Whitlock, other coaches and all the parents, which gave me a lot of confidence and pleasure in return.
On March 23 we got a very exciting phone call that my parents and my brother are due to arrive next week. Oh, what an excitement it was!!! We could hardly wait until the time that we had to go to the airport to meet them.
My Mom and my all grown up brother.
In the late afternoon of March 30 they finally arrived. When I saw  my Mom and Dad, faces that I did not think I will ever see again, I started sobbing. We did not even talk. We just hugged and held each other for a long, long time. And then I saw my brother Eduard. When I left he was a pesky 15 year old boy and now I was looking at a tall, very handsome young man with FACIAL HAIR!!! It was just too much to handle. Tears, laughter, stories... Elizabeth was so tiny and she could not understand who are these people and why they are hugging and kissing her and Masha. After we picked their luggage and packed it in our station wagon, we were on our way home. Very happy, very relieved and very thankful. I could not wait to show them, teach them, share with them everything that I've learned and everything that I loved about our new home.                           

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

#32 ~ Detroit ~ 1979 ~ On our Own!

So, here we are! Detroit, Michigan... middle of the winter...Snow, snow, snow everywhere.
Ida, Felix's Mom, rented an apartment for us in Pontiac and her friends helped us to furnish it. We had beds, some utensils, table and few chairs. It looked liked we had to start all over again and I missed my comfortable home in Hartford.. But I don't remember feeling sad or upset or deprived.  Always looking forward to a new day, new discoveries, new experiences.
The very next week Ida moved to Cleveland to start her new job in a private gymnastics club and we were ON OUR OWN!

Ida Davidovich with her new co-workers in Cleveland

I missed my friends and my warm American family from Hartford terribly. Evelyn and Diane called us every week to see how we are doing. Evelyn kept asking me when we are coming back home.
But we were determine to make it work.
I worked in the gym every day. My boss, Steve (who later became Director of Education for the US Gymnastics) and all the staff at the Gym were very friendly, helpful and supportive. They welcomed us, helped us with advice, encouraged us and of course helped with our limited English.
I started my Rhythmic Gymnastics Team right away. I was also teaching floor and beam for the Artistic  Gymnastics. Students called me "Ms. Body Wave". I was not sure if they made fun of me, just teased me or enjoyed my teaching.
We had to hire a babysitter and it broke my heart to see baby Elizabeth cry every time when we were leaving for work.
We took kids with us to the Gym every time we had a chance and everyone loved them.

Soon Masha joined a group of "Hot Shots". So she was officially taking gymnastics twice a week.
And she loved practicing her new skills at home...

Masha practicing her "bridge" at home in Detroit, MI

I was so excited to teach Rhythmic Gymnastics. I did what I loved and I was getting paid!!! Could it get any better than that? Every Friday weall went shoppimg and after that  drove to the bank to make a deposit. We were so careful with our spending... Still never allowed ourselves to go to the movies or to the restaraunt. Secreteley I was still afraid that all this will come to an end and we will end up going back to the Soviet Union.
In a meantime my Mom, Dad and my little brother Eduard were granted exit Visas and they settled in Italy to wait for the US permission to join us. Our little family was very happy!

Saturday, September 21, 2013

#31 ~ Detroit ~ January 1978

Ida was working in Detroit as a gymnastics coach for a year, but soon she was offered a position in Cleveland in a big, very successful gymnastics private school. She arranged an interview for Felix with the owner of gymnastics school in Detroit, Steve Whitlock. Felix flew to Detroit and after a short interview, we both were offered full time jobs as coaches. Scary, frightening, exciting... Should we, shouldn't we? What about the kids? How are they going to handle the move?
But we decided to take the offer. We were leaving behind everything that we knew, sanctuary that only family can offer. Felix submitted  resignation at his place of work (General Elevator Company). I immediately they doubled his salary and offered his own office. But we made our decision.
people that we loved so very much, security of familiar places and the s
I could see that Evelyn, our closest friend was very unhappy. But she helped me to pack, and after we moved out of our apartment in West Hartford, we lived with her in her house.
Felix left very early in the morning. We packed our station wagon with clothes, toys, kitchen stuff and books. It was in the middle of the winter, it was snowing and I was so nervous and stressed. I could not sleep that night and I remember that Masha had a fever. I probably fell asleep around 8am, when Evelyn gently woke me up and said that Felix called and he made it to Detroit safe and sound. What a relief!!! Later he told me how difficult it was driving at night through the snow storm, icy roads and not quite knowing where he was going...
Next morning Evelyn took me and the kids to the airport. All my dear friends, Diane Goldshlager, Sharon Malofski, Masha Lotstein came to say "Goodbye". Tears, laughter, advices, concerns, wishes of good luck and promises to keep in touch, hugs and kisses. I took it all in. What a great influence these great women had on our lives! Girls felt the tension and anxiety and they were very quiet and stayed very close to me all the time.

Flight was short and truthfully I don't remember much of it... But when we landed in Detroit and I saw Felix and Ida waiting for us - it was a very, very happy moment for all of us! It was the beginning of a new chapter of our lives!

Marina Davidovich, Felix, Ida, Masha, Elizabeth, Ida's friend Misha ~ One of the first days in Detroit.